For the wasps, they’re separate organisms - different than the day before. I wouldn’t see an issue posting more daily 
it’ll probably annoy some people but oh well. It’s not like you’re posting a picture of the hive daily, it’s just whatever organism you’re encountering.
If it’s the actual nest you want to post, I’d limit it to when you notice changes and possibly linking back to the previous observations of it. Kinda like posting the same plant in your yard, only post if there’s something that’s changed.
iNaturalist is your page for your observations. Be as selfish as you want with it. Stop thinking about what others might like and enjoy the process of going out, taking pictures, and getting the up on the site. Maybe you’ll start to notice nuanced difference you didn’t see before