As someone who at times has to deal with some of the more unpleasant behavior on iNat (although it’s a rare thing, our community is great), I often like to go to the Real Time Discussions tab on my dashboard (this URL will take you there: https://www.inaturalist.org/home?tab=comments).
It takes a moment to load, but it displays recent comments from all over iNat. Nearly all of the time, these comments depict members of our community politely helping each other out with an ID, expressing gratitude for said help, wanting to learn more, or offering encouragement or praise. Check it out if you haven’t. :-)
Also, on how many other social networks will you see comments that make you excited about leeches?