I’m strongly opposed to this, being unable to see who flagged me would cause several problems:
1: If someone flags me in a harassing manner or due to a misunderstanding I want to have the option to disengage from/deescalate any conflicts I have with that person and avoid them in the future, if I don’t know who flagged me I do not know who I inadvertently offended (in the case of a misunderstanding) or who is harassing me (in the case of harassment), and therefore cannot make any effort to avoid conflict with that person going forward. So this policy would actually prevent attempts at conflict avoidance.
2: Concern about inadvertently interacting with the person flagging me could create a hesitance to interact with other users in general because I do not know that they are not the flagger, this creates a chilling effect on the social and collaborative nature of the platform since there is no one who I know is not the flagger.
3: Anonymous flags would create a false impression that more users have disagreements with me than actually do, for example I could be in an argument with someone, get something of mine flagged, and not realize the person I was arguing with is the one who flagged my observation, making it seem like 2 people instead of one have conflicts with me. And one person flagging multiple items of mine could seem like several people are flagging me. Bogus flagging is already a means of harassment, and not knowing who made the flags would make the harassment worse by making the target feel like they are unwelcome on the site, thinking numerous people are flagging their content because they don’t know that it is the same person doing all the flagging.
I actually am a curator, I use “me” to refer to how I or another non-curator might feel if I were not a curator and did not have knowledge of who flagged me
4: From the curator perspective I think this is also problematic, on flags related to interpersonal conflict it is common for curators to ask both parties for background on the conflict and propose ways to deescalate said conflict, this becomes nearly impossible if the curator cannot reveal the flagger’s name to the flagee.
And on top of all the downsides to this proposal, there is a much less problematic solution to the problem of retaliation, if you fear retaliation for a flag, you can email staff about the problem instead of flagging it, and if staff takes action there is nothing that says you were the one to inform them of the situation.
In short, I understand what makes this seem like a useful change, but I believe it’s actual effect will be to impair conflict resolution and avoidance, degrade the social and collaborative nature of the site, and worsen the impact of some forms of harassment, all while a less problematic solution exists.