I’m closing this thread, it’s devolved into sniping and judgemental posts. For those of you who shared your perspective thoughtfully, thank you and I’m sorry. The idea here is to listen and learn and not jump on someone you disagree with.
If anyone thinks someone’s post was a troll comment, please don’t respond, and please don’t respond angrily - just flag it. Three flags on a post hides it until it’s reviewed. Don’t let it derail a conversation.