It hurts, and Iâm sorry you experienced it. It can be confusing to be blocked on iNaturalist, when youâre just trying to help.
Itâs the online equivalent of being ghosted. One minute youâre sharing your knowledge, and the next minute, youâre looking at a brick wall with no explanation. Itâs natural to ask, âWhat did I do?â
As others have said above, it often has little to do with you. Many people are not skilled communicators. Theyâd rather hit a button than have an awkward conversation, even something like, âHey, I prefer to ID my own observations first.â
And many people donât understand their own psychology. They couldnât explain it to you because they canât explain it to themselves. Additionally, as mentioned, there could be accidental blocks from people who donât understand how the platform works.
Blocking (and its real-life equivalents â ghosting and estrangements) are an unfortunate part of life. It hurts, because we are social creatures.
But blocking can also represent something positive: we have the agency to curate our digital spaces. While it hurts to be blocked, the ability to limit interactions is a tool for well-being. Someone might feel overwhelmed for reasons that have nothing to do with you, and this is how they manage it.
In real life, estrangement from close family members is surprisingly common. Usually the person âblockingâ (initiating the estrangement) does it for reasons of self-preservation, as a last resort.
Donât let it dim your passion! For every person who blocks you, there are thousands of others who are grateful for your time and your knowledge. Your contributions are valuable. Focus on the good!